Being a chaser isn’t always a bad thing – but these are a few signs that you should consider if you’re already feeling the weight of your relationship on your shoulders.
1. You Say Yes To Everything
Compromise is a necessity – you shouldn’t be the one to always change your plans because they want to do something on the spur of the moment. That’s how you lose friends, and your backbone.
2. You Always Text First
They never start the conversations – and maybe they don’t get back to you about something, and you’re always prompted to double text.
3. You Bring Up The Milestones
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They don’t care about birthdays, or anniversaries – important dates in your relationship. You’re the one who has to take the initiative to do something.
4. They Don’t Talk About You In Their Future
If you’ve been in a serious relationship for a decently long time, but they don’t seem to have you in mind for anything in the long run, it’s a red flag.
5. You Know More About Them
You’re the one who’s always asking about what they like do do, or how they are, and there’s no reciprocation.
6. You Post About Them More
Take a look through your respective Instagram feeds – do the both of you share your relationship with the rest of the world?
7. They Don’t Hang With Your Friends
Like the Spice Girls said, it’s a necessity for couples to share their friends – if they expect you to always hang with their group but aren’t willing to do the same for you, there is a serious imbalance.
8. They’re Always Busy
They seem to constantly make excuses to not go out on dates, or cancel at the last moment.